There is no such thing as the perfect family. Everyone has their individual experiences and perspectives. It is impractical to believe that you and I hold our families in the same regard. It is imperative that you understand that family consists of your loved ones. Sharing a bloodline with someone does not guarantee a place will be held for them in your heart. Here are some things to consider if you are wondering who your family is. Does this person think about you? Does this person respect you? Does this person check on you? Does this person express love for you in any form? Is this person committed to being in your life? Do you and his person share a unique bond despite our differences? If the answer isn't yes to nearly every question then I would suggest being mindful of the expectations you have for this person. Family is essential because it encompasses your being. Always do your best to protect that!
